A LOVING STRATEGY

Things seem to be looking up somewhat now that we are getting a handle on the Covid virus. Unfortunately we can’t say the same for our country that is going through a very difficult time. But we can all do our part by being honorable, respectable, and more loving. The purpose of my writing today will be to emphasize love As a center piece for our day-to-day communications not just with family members, but whoever we are talking to, via social media, phone, or in person.

Love is the one emotion we can all relate to. And when we show appreciation to others with love in our heart that helps us to keep our cool under what could be a challenging situation. There will always be those who you disagree with or who disagree with you. But if you keep love in your heart, you will love even those who are not very loving and are being disagreeable. This is always a big challenge to love those who aren’t being very lovable.

It’s easy to love those who love you, but to love those who hate you like the Bible teaches us to do is not that easy. But if at a minimum we learn to show respect for all those who oppose us we are on our way to healing the hatred that has overtaken our nation. It’s true that love makes the world go round, and at this time in our nation’s history we certainly need more love to counter all the hatred that there seems to be in America.

Love will out perform hatred any given day of the week. Love can offset hate most of the time. Hate is such a negative emotion and those who hate are doing damage to their psychological well being as well as their physical well being. Emotionally love makes us feel 100% better. When we pour out love to others in our everyday communications people will respond back to you in a more positive way most of the time. However, be warned that some folks will still go on hating no matter how nice you try to be.

Kindness will most of the time win the hearts of most people. Of course there will always be exceptions but never-the-less we shouldn’t stop trying. When it’s all said and done I’m betting that love will win over hate. When it does we will have a more loving country once again. In order for that to happen we need more people falling in love again. Not joust with their spouse, partner, and friends, but with anyone who will accept your love. Most people will choose love over hate because it makes you feel so much better. Hate only brings you negative vibes, but love brings out the best in a person and gives off such positive vibrations. Choose to love, and you will have a winning strategy that will set you up to have a life you can be proud of. Until the next with love, God bless, Carbie out.

Published by frankcarbajal

Served in the Air Force for 24 years. After the military I taught for 22 years, 20 years were spent teaching for the California Department of Corrections and Rehabilitation (CDCR). I'm currently retired and substitute teach part-time for Merced County. I've written my first book "The One-Minute Prisoner" that was released in February of 2020. I'm married with five grown children, and 13 grandchildren, and currently living in Atwater, California.

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